Your Pastor, Deacon, and Church Family
There should only be one man in your relationship and that is the man you are dating—not your pastor’s opinions, statements, or sermons. These men say they don’t want to hear what the pastor had to say.
When Christian women constantly state, “Pastor said this and Pastor said that…” it turns a man off. He wants to be the only one who you admire and quote, not your pastor. (Plus, he’s uncomfortable that another man has so much sway over you.)