Marriage burnout is a thing. If you do not create a safe space to love yourself, you will not be able to properly love your spouse. Self love in relationships is necessary in order to be happy in love. There are certain expectations in marriage that require your dedication and commitment, even when you feel you don’t have it to give. Your spouse won’t stop having needs, though … [Read more...]
How Would You Rate Your Marriage? Happy or Troubled?
I must admit one of my guilty pleasures is relationship-focused reality TV. I am hooked on Married at First Sight. It is such an interesting concept and yet an opportunity to learn so much about relationships. In a recent episode, the newlywed couples rated their marriages. Of course, there were hurt feelings and surprise reactions to the responses. But it is an interesting … [Read more...]
5 Easy Marriage-Care Tips Your Relationship Needs Now for a Happy Married Life
Self-Care has basically been the theme of 2020. We have needed to be more intentional and aware of our emotions than ever before. For married couples, however, we have also had to be mindful of our marriage-care. A happy married life doesn’t happen by coincidence; an investment is required. The following 5 easy marriage-care tips your relationship needs now will help you better … [Read more...]
Are You Unhappy in Marriage? How to Love Your Marriage When It’s Hard to Love Your Spouse
The first step to resolving any issue in a relationship is to admit that it exists in the first place. Though it might be difficult to admit you are unhappy in marriage, nothing changes if you aren’t willing to own that truth. Many couples have found themselves unhappy in marriage at some point in their relationship. And many couples have asked the question “is it time for a … [Read more...]
3 Reminders for How to Cope with Empty Nest Syndrome Now That Your Kids Have Gone to School
I like to think of the end of summer as a new beginning. Children go back to school and some leave home for the first time, creating an empty nest and the necessity to learn how to cope with empty nest syndrome. For those of you who have children leaving for college, you might be going through a wide array of emotions; I know I did when my oldest daughter went away to school. … [Read more...]
Tips for Successful Blended Families the COVID Era
It’s almost Blended Family Week, a time dedicated to the celebration of blended families everywhere. It’s a necessary recognition because merging families isn’t always easy. Add to that this current climate of COVID and it could become even more of a challenge. It's comforting to know there are resources and tips for successful blended families. If you are looking for blended … [Read more...]
9 Marriage Tips for Single Women from a Happily Married Wife
I love talking relationships and marriage with my single friends. One of the things I value most is that we can be candid with one another. We share the truth about the realities of each of our experiences. As a Relationship Coach, I use my training, knowledge, and my own marriage experience to create outlets where I can provide marriage tips for single women. Marriage Tips … [Read more...]
How to Avoid Infidelity or an “Entanglement” Situation When You and Your Spouse Need a Break
We don’t often hear infidelity in a marriage described as an “entanglement” but lately, we are all talking about how to avoid infidelity, emotional infidelity and wondering how we can prevent a similar situation from happening to us. We likely don’t want to think about how to deal with infidelity, but the reality is that we are stressed and feel pressures that we have never … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Know if You Are Immature in Your Marriage and What to Do if You Are
When Jada Pinkett Smith admitted to her past "entanglement" she used the term "emotional immaturity" and it left us all talking and wondering how to avoid emotional immaturity in marriage. When you are or have an immature spouse, your relationship requires more energy and effort from both you and your partner. Being emotionally immature can lead to stress, frustration and even … [Read more...]
5 Ways You May Be Blocking Your Marriage Blessings Without Realizing It
Marriage is a precious gift that couples sometimes take for granted. Did you know God wants your marriage to be healthy and wants you to prosper as a couple? This is difficult to do when we get in the way of our own happiness. In fact, we block our marriage blessings without even realizing it. We should be suitable helpers to our spouse and be reminded of what God says in … [Read more...]
6 Behaviors to Avoid When Dealing With Conflict in Your Marriage
Have you wondered, in the heat of a battle, what you were really fighting about? When it comes to conflict in your marriage, it’s not usually the surface issue you're discussing. The inner work begins the moment you are able to go beneath the surface and uncover what it is that really bothers you about what’s happening. 6 Behaviors to Avoid When Dealing With Conflict in Your … [Read more...]
Struggles in Marriage: 5 Ways to Protect Yourself from Marriage Burnout
You may not have even known that marriage burnout exists, but it is an unfortunate reality. It is a result of relationship stress and the effect it has on couples varies. Being frustrated when things don’t go our way or having a spouse who can’t properly manage their half of the marriage all contribute. So, when it comes to struggles in marriage, what should you … [Read more...]
Marriage Prayers: Here’s How to Use Prayer to Resolve Conflict With Your Spouse
Conflict, unfortunately, doesn’t always end with peaceful solutions. When relationship conflicts can’t be resolved, you’ll find damaged egos, hurt feelings, hateful words, and, sometimes, the end of a marriage. Marriage prayers might not be a trending topic, but when your marriage is in trouble, it doesn't have to be. Marriage Prayers: Here's How to Use Prayer to Resolve … [Read more...]
10 Very Specific Questions to Ask Your Spouse
You might be thinking your spouse doesn’t like being questioned. The truth is, not very many of us do. Each individual has their own communication style, including the way they listen, respond and process information. The majority of us have trouble processing information that arrives via nagging, negative energy or even too many questions. 10 Very Specific Questions to Ask … [Read more...]
Sexless Marriage? 21 Questions to Incredible Sex with Your Spouse
There's nothing better than a hot, steamy and romantic relationship; one where just the thought of the other person gets you all hot, bothered and excited. Unfortunately, there are some couples who struggle with their physical connection and find themselves enduring a sexless marriage. Sexless Marriage? 21 Questions to Incredible Sex with Your Spouse In this article: … [Read more...]