Love versus lust. It’s a topic that’s been discussed time and time again. Many people find themselves trying to understand the difference between the two, because it can often seem and feel unclear. And even if you are now in a grown relationship and are completely clear on the fact that you are in love, most of us can think back to our younger (or less wise) days where maybe we confused the two ourselves. Maybe we thought we loved someone and later realized we were way off.
So why is the distinction so important? Because if you think you are in love and you are not, all kinds of problems can ensue. You may end up hurting the person you are in a relationship with. You may wind up making commitments you won’t be able to keep. You may even end up in a loveless marriage, wondering why your settled when deep down you always knew the love wasn’t quite there.
There is nothing wrong with lust. In fact, I think when you are truly in love, having feelings of lust is a wonderful thing. The problem arises when lust is truly all you are feeling, but you are going around calling it love.
Here are 7 signs that you are actually in lust, not love:
[imagebrowser id=405]