Do you ever look at your marriage and think, how did we get here? Sure, you are still in love, and you have no intentions of leaving your spouse, but that feeling of excitement and romance is fading more and more each day. You are starting to wonder in you can get it back.
It happens to the best of us. We get married and life seems full of possibilities. We travel, we talk about our dreams, and then we get settled and things start to happen. Maybe we start having kids, or maybe someone’s parent becomes ill and needs to move in. The planned and the unplanned show up in ways we weren’t quite prepared for, and the toll on our love lives is real.
So how do you get back that loving feel when it seems like it’s gone? It can be tough, but certainly not impossible. After all, no one ever promised that keeping the sparks alive and well would be easy. It takes work. But with true love, and a willingness to make a few shifts, you can find yourself with those same loving feelings you had the day you got married, happy that you chose the right person to travel this journey with.
Here are a few things that may be making you lose those loving feelings. Try to work against them, and I am pretty sure the romance and excitement will make its way back into your life in time.
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