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Fellas, News Flash, These 5 Things Are a Major Turn Off

Husbands, don’t just assume this article is just for singles. There are some these you can learn, too, about how to turn your woman on. Jetmag.com has the story below.


There is nothing more of a turn on for a woman than a man who knows how to push her buttons. When a man knows how to turn on his woman, he can have whatever he wants—well almost anything. But, for women, it seems like men often do a better job of turning them off rather than getting them turned on.

If you want to change the playbook for a woman in whom you are interested, stop doing these five things like right now.

1) No “member” pics.

While speaking with one of my clients, she mentioned that she was dating this guy who had liked her for a long time. She had decided to give him a shot. Things between them were going OK. They had a couple of dates, and she was enjoying getting to know him. But after date number three, early one morning, she woke up to a text message from him of his private member.

Look, I get it. I understand the loving relationship you often have with your penis. You hold him in high esteem. It’s a big part of your manhood and ego, no pun intended. But before you send a woman you are interested in a visual memento, let’s figure out if this is the best way to turn her on.

You might want to try the following. Ask what attracts her to someone physically and emotionally. You will get some useful clues. Are they visual or mental gestures? Does she like when you are communicative with her? Does she value affection? You will get the answers you need just by asking her the right questions. You’ll quickly be able to determine what gets her going versus what stops your progression with her.

2) Personal hygiene matters.

Women love a well-groomed man. Even if you aren’t the most attractive man, having good grooming habits takes your attractiveness up a notch. Wearing nice cologne in moderation is attractive and earns you extra points. Also, caring for your teeth, having good breath and skin care habits is important too.

I realize you might feel comfortable in your over-sized jersey and baggy jeans. But remember, first impressions are lasting ones. Just like men are visual creatures, women are too. Getting regular haircuts, grooming your facial hair and hair down there sends signals that you care about looking good for your woman. No one, well I shouldn’t say no one because I’m sure there are a few, wants to face a jungle down there if you catch my drift. Take the extra time to “manscape,” smell, and look good and you will reap you big rewards. When you show a woman you care about yourself, it’s an absolute turn on.

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