by Ronnie Tyler
Hubby: Hey boo
Me: Hey babes we miss u
Hubby: Follow my tweets today
Me: Ok
My husband and I were texting as he attended an all day social media conference a few weeks ago. I love him to death!! And when we are apart, I miss him dearly. And when he comes home after being away, I am so excited to see him. Please God, don’t let this feeling end!!
We have been together for 7 years and married for almost five years. When people see us, they think our love is so cute. When they ask how long we’ve been married, they say: “Oh you are newlyweds.” Newlyweds?? Since when does being married for 5 years make you a newlywed??? Wikipedia says that you are considered a newlywed: if you have been married for less than one or two years, or until you have kids, or until you stop behaving like newlyweds (i.e. laughing, playing, having lots of sex, etc.) Well we have been married for almost 5 years, we have 4 kids (a blended family) and we have not stopped acting like newlyweds!! Please God, don’t let it end!!
It’s almost like people expect you to grow apart and to just settle into a routine that does not include having fun, being excited about each other, being playful, etc. While I know that everyday life can get hectic, stressful, busy, tiring…etc, I don’t believe that I have to settle for a life without playful moments, missing someone, having a friend, a lover, and a boo 🙂 .
So how do we plan to keep the excitement alive? As Ayize and Aiyana say, we will be intentional about making our marriage work by:
- Continuously working on our marriage (education, workshops, reading materials, counseling…whatever it takes to keep it strong.)
- Continue to date each other and ensure that set aside quality time to spend with each other
- Continue to be affectionate with each other (daily hugs, kisses and I love yous…)
After dating my husband for a couple of months, I called my friend that introduced us and said Lamar is a sweetie pie. And almost 7 years later, he’s still my sweetie pie…my boo. Please God, don’t let it end!!
BMWK Family – how long have you been married? Are you still having fun together? How do you plan to keep the excitement alive?