Years ago when we moved to Atlanta, one of our first priorities was identifying a church home. We visited many churches during our search to make sure one main criterion was met. The church needed to have a strong marriage ministry which, in some ways, can be as effective as marriage counseling. We believed that marriage is a covenant between us and God. As a result, we … [Read more...]
5 Powerful Tips to Help You Stick to Your New Year Goals
At the start of every new year, many of us decide we’re going to: lose weight, start a business, write a book, quit a bad habit, improve our relationships, etc. The resolutions are endless. And we have the best of intentions. So why, then, is it that only 8% of us actually achieve our New Year’s resolutions every year? In fact, by January 15th, it’s pretty clear who’s going … [Read more...]
FREE COUPLES WEBINAR: How to Reduce Distance and Maintain Closeness in Your Relationship
Whether you've been married one year or 50, your relationship, unless well managed, is in danger of losing its closeness and intimacy. The work that is required to ensure strong communication, honest interactions, and consistent bonding is not for the light at heart. Couples entering a marriage sometimes do so thinking these key ingredients happen naturally. And, when they … [Read more...]
BMWK Founders Give Marriage Tips on The Today Show
Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, Founders of Blackandmarriedwithkids.com were featured on The Today Show offering some of their keys to a great marriage and discussing what it means to be successful in the workplace and at home. "We do everything as a team. We're a team at work but also at home, you know with raising the kids. So teamwork has been instrumental in our marriage," says … [Read more...]
FREE SINGLES WEBINAR: Positioned To Be Found: Top 5 Ways To Meet Relationship Ready Singles
In the wonderful world of dating, there are soooo many choices. And, like a box of chocolates, you never know what you'll get. While you may be ready to move forward, the woman you've dated the last three months wants to focus on her career. And, when you're expecting a proposal, he's expecting another weekend trip. It can be tough finding the right one who is ready at the … [Read more...]
Marriage is Not One Size Fits All
Marriage is not one size fits all. You have to do what's right for you and your spouse!! People often times get caught up in the way things should be based on several factors such as how they were raised, how the neighbors are living, what they are hearing at church, or what their families and friends think. And this is making their lives miserable!! For … [Read more...]
BMWK Founders on HLN What Matters: Should Black Women Give Up on Black Men?
This past Friday we made an appearance on CNN's HLN network to respond to recent suggestions that black women should give up on black men by an author who is making the rounds. Below is the video of that conversation. Enjoy. … [Read more...]
5 Ingredients For a Happier Life
Life is not perfect. You will have ups and downs, good times and bad times. It's just a fact of life. If you are waiting for the day that everything in your life will be 100% perfect all of the time, then you may be waiting for a long time. I have a great life...I am truly blessed. However, there are things going on all of the time that could actually have me depressed … [Read more...]
How to Have a Great Vacation With Your Boo (Without Arguing)
What's the point of going on vacation with your spouse if you are going to argue and fuss the entire time? Vacations are supposed to be relaxing. They're supposed to be a time where you and your spouse can reconnect and rekindle the flame. When we returned from our vacation last week, my husband said: "Thank you for an awesome trip. I had a great time. I think it was one … [Read more...]
Are You Living Your Life For What Really Matters?
Have you ever talked to a person that says their marriage is important to them, but their actions show otherwise? Or how about a person that complains about their marriage but never does anything to change it. I loved this tweet from @DivoreBusting (Michele Weiner-Davis): The very same people who bemoan the loss of romance or intensity in their marriages do little to … [Read more...]
You Get What You Get and You Don’t Pitch a Fit
by Ronnie Tyler This past Saturday, we planned to spend the afternoon chilling at the neighborhood pool. After everyone put on their swimsuits and sun block, I went downstairs to pack us a lunch to take with us to the pool. So I asked the kids, "What type of sandwich do you want -ham and cheese or peanut butter and jelly?" That was a big mistake. They all took a few … [Read more...]
QOD: The Best Thing About Being Married
by Ronnie Tyler Recently, I was asked: "What is the best thing about being married?" I really can't just give only one answer to this question. But I said: "Being able to wake-up with your best friend everyday." My husband and I are BFFs and I look forward to what each day will bring with him. We enjoy each other's company, we support each other in all that we do, I … [Read more...]
Discipline in a Blended Family
By Ronnie Tyler Discipline can be a point of contention in a blended family. Differences in parenting styles can literally make a couple split if you don't take measures to build strong relationships and to ensure that your marriage bond is strong. When Lamar and I were engaged, I got my first glimpse of this step-family dynamic. We had an argument about how I … [Read more...]
Interview with the Author: Sophia A. Nelson (Black Woman Redefined)
by Ronnie Tyler When Sophia A. Nelson told Lamar and I that she was writing Black Woman Redefined: Dispelling Myths and Discovering Fulfillment in the Age of Michelle Obama, I thought finally someone that truly cares about the lives of black women is going to set the record straight. Sophia A. Nelson, is not only a much sought after speaker, media/political commentator, … [Read more...]
Marriage Personified: My Weekend With The Tylers
by Eric Payne During my recent 4-day weekend at Disney World for Disney's Dreamers Academy with Steve Harvey and Essence magazine, I was blessed with an unexpected treat. I got to work alongside Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, the founders of this site. We and several other bloggers were members of the New Media press corps invited to cover the event. Prior to the weekend, Lamar … [Read more...]