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4 Critical Ways to Stay Celibate Strong When the Struggle is Real

Okay. So, let’s keep it real…

You’re sitting on the couch watching a movie with your Boo. And, you begin to get that loving feeling and start locking lips. His are soft, and the tickle of his mustache adds to the sensation of the moment. His hands encircle you and make their way to your very available bottom while his tongue simultaneously and smoothly slips between your lips.

He begins to adjust your body…and his…from the vertical to the horizontal position when all of a sudden, you remember something.

A promise – the one you made to yourself – a vow.

Eerks! You slam the brakes just as he’s rounding 3rd base. He pauses and looks at you, ’cause, like a Little Caesar’s Pizza, you’re both hot and ready.

The struggle is definitely real! What’s a girl to do?

Here are 4 very effective ways to turn down the heat and get the heck out of the kitchen with your vow of celibacy in tact.

Step #1 – Stay STOP, get untangled, and stand up

Easier said than done? Maybe. But, it must be said, and it can be done. You aren’t a rabid dog, and hopefully, neither is your Bae.

If you have already discussed your vow with your boyfriend and he’s agreed to keep it, then, as real as the struggle may be, he’ll respect and uphold your standards…in fact, we’ll call this your “Standing No-vation!”

Read more at The Celibate Woman.

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