Utter shock, disbelief, confusion, fear and anger are simultaneously pulsing thru his veins. He’s then able to mutter the words, “I can’t believe she did this to me!!!” He gets that empty feeling in the pit of his stomach, while feeling like the wind has just been knocked out of him. He has found out news that no man EVER wants to receive: his wife is having an affair.
His emotions run the full gamut of the emotional scale from devastated and hurt to within seconds wanting to erupt like a volcano and destroy everything and everyone in his path. Finally, if he can muster enough self control to not commit a crime, he will probably shed tears because suddenly he feels like his heart has been ripped from his chest, his soul has been spat on, his ego has been flushed down the toilet and vanished right along with his pride. You see she was the one person in the world that he trusted with everything he had and she was the only woman that he allowed himself to be vulnerable with. “What do I do now?” is the question he asks himself, but sadly enough he has no idea where to start to find the answer. Well I hope that by the end of this article he can leave with some tools to help him begin to start the healing process after infidelity.
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BMWK — What other suggestions do you have to help men work through infidelity?