by Tara Pringle Jefferson
I want to be a capable mom. I want my kids to know they can come to me for questions to life’s many answers, or when they just feel perplexed.
School issues? I’m there.
Friendship troubles? Come sit right here next to Mama. *taps couch cushion*
I feel like I have so many lessons, so much I want to teach them. Many families come up with mission statements that define who they are as a family and gives them direction as they go forward. I decided to come up with a list – nothing permanent, and definitely still expanding to encompass lessons they’ll need down the line.
- No matter where you go or what you do, if you close your eyes and feel God’s presence, then things will turn out for the best.
- Family is forever, and can definitely expand to include people who are related to you by blood.
- Talent will only take you about 40% there. Effort will take you the rest of the way. Never underestimate the success rate of people who want it BAD.
- You only “need” one good friend in this life. That person that will help you when you have nothing to give in return but a “Thank you.”
- Being in love takes practice, if you’re anything like me. Sometimes you have to learn how to love someone. Read the Five Love Languages ““ it will help.
- You were born with everything you need to be successful in this life. I’m sure of it.
- Take a moment every day to just breathe. Think about how blessed you are and how much you are loved.
- When someone you love doesn’t treat you in a way that makes you feel valued, speak up. If nothing changes, get out. Quickly.
These are just a few of the lessons I want to pass on to my kids ““ what are some of yours?
Tara Pringle Jefferson is a freelance writer, blogger and PR professional living in Ohio with her husband and two kids. She’s also Managing Editor of BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com. Follow her on Twitter or check out her blog for her insights on what it means to be a mom, wife, student, writer, and about three other labels she’s too tired to remember.