by Adam Butler
Full disclosure: I consider myself to be a pretty nice guy, and I’m no stranger to the nice guy title. I mean, I try to treat women the right way; I hold doors, I say please and thank you, and I take absolutely no joy in being an a-hole. Now that I’m writing it all out, it’s funny because that doesn’t sound like a nice guy it just sounds like a good person; but anyway back to the topic at hand….
How often have you heard the saying “Nice guys finish last”? I’m guessing about a million, especially when it comes to dating! Is this true? Are nice guys really finishing last? I don’t think so. I think we are mixing nice guys up with LAMES (explanation will soon follow); and to me lames deserve to finish last!
Ok, ok, ok, calm down fellas, allow me to explain myself. Below, are 4 ways we may mistake “Being a nice guy” with being Super Lame (Warning this may come off as a little harsh)
Born and raised in Washington DC, Adam Butler is the host and producer of Mindstream Radio, an online radio show that focuses on ending the disconnect in the African American community. He is also the director and producer of the documentary film “I’m single because: The civil war between Black Men and Women” and co-founder of www.endthedisconnect.com. You can follow Adam by logging on to www.endthedisconnect.com
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