First look at the phrase “fall” in love. I understand it is an old cliché. However, our words hold the power to create the circumstances in our lives. When we see the word “fall” in brings about the thought of being out of control or things just happening without us guiding them. I don’t want you to fall but to make choices. Choose to be in love with your mate. Choose to love hard. Choose to maintain your own identity while also creating an identity together.  Use the phrase “fall in love” if you like, but have a clear understanding of what is going on. You are always in choice.

So how do you fall in love hard, without losing yourself?  Here are 5 guiding principles to help you in your journey. You can maintain and grow who you are as a person while enjoying the oneness of your relationship.

Uncover your gifts and strength. When you have discovered these things about yourself and they become your truth, you are less likely to give up who you are to please someone else.

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