Soooo many times, women say they want to know what men really think. They say they want the “male perspective,” but I’m often amazed at how when they get that perspective, they proceed to tell men why their perspective is wrong. NEWS FLASH, just because our perspective is different than yours, doesn’t make our perspective WRONG! Let me clear the air with these 6 BIG things men want you to know about them!
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Superwife says
Thanks. All six apply both ways.
Troy Spry says
Thanks for reading Superwife!
Poptart says
I’ve found that most women are not oblivious to this. They just don’t care.
j says
Thank you.. i spoke to him abiut the 6 reasons and he agreed…now i am aware of the things that are important to him and i can focus on some of these to ensure a happy man. Just like he tries to focus on me..
Di says
Whoa! There it is….
Hope somebody is listening and learning something.
I agree, we don’t know it all…there’s always room for introspection and personal growth…but we have to lay down our ego first, be vulnerable, ask him nicely for what we want and need, and be open to making some changes ourselves.
It took me a long minute, but thank God it sunk in a few years ago…
Nice piece…succinct and poignant.
Yes, it could go both ways…but let’s not lose focus…this is about how we can make him happier, and ultimately be happier ourselves…
I thank you, and appreciate your work….
Ron says
Well stated, man. Tactfully and fairly presented without being mean or attacking our sisters. I’m also really encouraged by all the intelligent, understanding comments from the ladies. I applaud you all! This is probably the first time I’ve seen male-focused article where most of the women weren’t angry and posting negative comments. So refreshing!
Troy Spry says
Thanks Ron! I appreciate the positive outlook on the article and I agree with being encouraged by the comments. My goal is always to get the conversation started so that hopefully we can all better communicate!
Troy Spry says
Thank you so much Di! I appreciate the love on the article and your open mindedness to receive the information!
Troy Spry says
Thanks J! I am glad you had this conversation with your man! I hope more of us can have these kinds of open conversations as well!