I’ve learned that 75% of the path to marriage lies in the selection process. Now, there isn’t any scientific theory to this number it’s merely my opinion gathered from coaching so many people.
It is my belief that the big reason so many marriages don’t last isn’t because marriage is so hard or because people “change,” it’s more so because people don’t put enough effort into the selection process when choosing life partners.
We are so hungry for the wedding that we forget about the marriage part, and we are so excited about posting it on Facebook that we forget we actually have to live it in real life. So many times we end up marrying Mr. or Ms. Wrong and then regretting it later.
Well, my friend Martine Foreman wrote about 8 Reasons Your Man May Be Mr. Wrong last week so this week let’s focus on a few reasons why your woman might be Ms. Wrong.
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Lisa says
Good blog! I can see a little of myself in some of theses, sad but true.
Finally says
This so needs to be said, by a man for men. I agree and although I see something I need to get a bit better with, and am actively working on, glad to know I have the “Mrs Right” qualities.
Arthur says
Dear Sir/ Madam
I sincerely hope you are well.
I was wondering, that in a world where people need to get over cultural differences, and accept each other, why we still find it necessary to define each other by colour.
Even in South Africa where i’m from, people still have black ‘this’ and white ‘that’.
Sorry for picking on your website, but i’ve just not seen it in writing before. No i don’t get out much.
Anyhow, you guys look like you do good work, maybe you can help everyone instead of only black folks.
Best regards to you all
Arthur
Michelle says
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Andrew Baker says
Great Article. Numbers 1, 2, 5, & 7 applies to most women these days and knocks out most of them from being Mrs. Right. 🙂 If you don’t believe me, just listen to all the independent women chants, happy wife happy life sayings, and so on that many women believe.
Nesha says
No one is perfect. I’m sure we’ve all been this way one time or another. Also a lot of these leave the man feeling he has no issue. Your man wants to be a millionaire but wants to lay in the bed all day. Oh honey you can do it, I support you! Uh don’t think so. Having dreams is fine, but you need ambition and I’m not your mother, so I’m not taking care of you. How does a man know he protects and cares for his woman, because he is simply around? No, it takes more than thinking you’re doing a good job,it takes proof. If you’re following your “dreams” and you’re not paying bills, you’re not taking care of a dang thing certainly not untiring my life. It’s a two way street.
chizu says
This article is a mirror. It is a crime to be an ‘independent’ woman.