Yes, Marriage is Sexy in Cyberspace
We live in an age in which social media is king. Yes, there are negative images, quotes, and stories on social media about marriage. Conversely, there’s also a wealth of positive information shared on social media about marriage and relationships. Couples can join websites like meetup.com so they can connect with tons of other like-minded married couples.
They can find married couples in their area to travel with, go on date nights with, cook with, worship with, etc. They can meet married couples that are their age, that have the same interest and hobbies, or married couples that have decided to be a dynamic duo and remain kid free. Meetup.com is a wonderful way to meet and stay connected to people that value and enjoy marriage as much as you do.
Facebook also has numerous marriage groups that couples can join such as: I love My Husband, Young, Black and Married, Husband and Wife for Life, Marriage, Xklusive Thoughts, and my personal favorite Lip Service Lounge to name a few. These groups offer relationship advice, support, and words of encouragement to help reaffirm your commitment to your mate and your marriage. Last but not least there are several websites solely dedicated to helping you keep your marriage happy, healthy, and thriving.
One of the most phenomenal websites committed to sharing positive information about marriage is blackandmarriedwithkids.com. They have really elevated the reality that marriage is sexy. The website provides information that inspires, educates, and empowers couples to have the best marriage possible. This relationship site make you feel that love…real love… is not only possible, but is also in fact relevant, meaningful, and attainable.
Folks as I said before don’t believe the negative hype or the naysayers. Marriage is beautiful, sexy, and IS indeed the new black. One thing we all have in common is the fact that we all have wanted to be in a relationship, are currently in a relationship, or have been in a relationship. Make it your personal mission to surround yourself with positive people that respect, believe in, and find value in the sanctity of marriage.
Now that you have been given a dose of truth from someone who knows a thing or two about relationships; learn to become aware of the negative energy so that you can shake off, turn off and tune it out and focus on bringing sexy back to your marriage.
BMWK, how are going to restore and work on your marriage?
This article is wonderfully confirming my thoughts on marriage. As my husband and I draw close to ten years of marriage, we talk about how so many if our friends and some family continually give marriage a bad rap. We simply love being the We, Us and sometimes the Them. Marriage is what you want it to be and if you choose a happy marriage you’ll have a happy marriage.
Amen LaQuisha, I commend you and your husband for being the We, Us and Them. Continue to be the Good example of what marriage is and can be. You are correct in that you have to choose daily to be happy in your marriage. Once you resolve that you are going to be fully committed to your relationship and your mate, your thoughts and actions are predicated on making it the best relationship possible. You won’t always land perfectly in the love zone, but you will come pretty darn close more often than not when your plan is to be successfully committed. Thanks for taking the time to read my article. Please feel free to share the article with those that you feel may find it to be beneficial.
LaDawn The Relationship Rescuer