Ladies don’t be afraid to ask questions of men that express an interest in dating you. Ideally, you shouldn’t have to ask all of the tough questions. When men approach, they should be forthright, properly presenting themselves which involves more than the introduction, “Hello, my name is …” Their introduction should include information about themselves that will allow you to make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to allow them time to get to know you further.
The only men that are scared off by a woman who asks relevant questions are selfish men that have ulterior motives. It would only be to your advantage to quickly eliminate them.
Some ladies shy away from asking questions for fear that their questions may scare a guy off. The only men that are scared off by a woman who asks relevant questions are selfish men that have ulterior motives. It would only be to your advantage to quickly eliminate them. Honorable men have no problem being asked or answering questions by women they are interested in. These men know that only by engaging in meaningful dialogue can two people gain a deeper knowledge of one another to determine their level of compatibility. Here are a few questions to ask men along with the rationale behind the questions.
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They always run. Chickens. Last one said to never mention his family ever. We ladies need to start training our boys to be men… Babying and cooing at them always makes them believe every woman has got to be that way. Shout out to all the men who will look a lady in the eye and answer those questions!
Outstanding questions. Outstanding article. I lived my dating life by this rule. Ask questions! Lots of them. Even the hard ones. One question I’d add to this list is, “Why did your last relationship end?” This is in no way a bash-the-ex session. It’s telling when a man can speak of lessons learned and how they’ve helped him to move forward. It also sets him up to be able to answer the “why me” question.
I don’t feel #4 is appropriate to ask! As dating progresses he will open up to you and all of that will come to surface. If anything I would ask about his family in general and pay attention to how he describes his mother. If he loves and respects her (not in a mama’s boy way), then you’ve got a good one!
#4 can be very insightful because you will get a glance at the model he was given. Your relationship with him may not reflect EXACTLY like his parents, but you will know he was given a good or bad example. This will also prepare you for “meeting the parents” when the time comes. I definitely wouldn’t ask the question on the first date, but I wouldn’t put it off until you’ve dated for a year. At that point you may begin to wonder where he learned his behaviors. I would want to know was much as he’s willing to tell me about his parents’ relationship.