"Well that's just not who I am!" When I heard this yet again from another client I knew I had to write about it. I often coach clients and couples who are very resistant to change. In many cases, they feel stagnant and disconnected in relationships that have reached a new season and require evolution and growth. Often times, when couples reach this point, rather than … [Read more...]
“Caught in the Act!”: Focusing On This One Thing Is Killing Your Marriage
"What you focus on is what will grow!" This quote got me thinking about how we in relationships tend to focus so much on our mate’s shortcomings and not enough on his or her positive attributes. As a coach I often get clients who call me and can give me a list of everything their mates are doing wrong. "He doesn't clean up behind himself!" "She nags too much!" "He … [Read more...]
Part Two! Three Lies Women Tell Themselves that Keep Them from Loving Him Better
"The worst lies are the ones that we tell to ourselves." Sometimes it's those same lies that stop us from loving our mates better. That's the concept I wrote about to the men last week in my article. Well, men aren't the only ones that lie to themselves in relationships. Let’s talk about some lies the ladies tell themselves that may be stopping them from loving their men … [Read more...]