Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am a successful, black, single woman and I am looking for someone who matches my financial potential. I make six figures and have a good quality of life. Like so many other sisters, I am finding it more and more difficult to meet men who are on my level. I am open to dating men who do not make as much money as I do, but I am not open to dating men who … [Read more...]
4 Ways for Black Women to Keep Family Members Out of Their Pockets
One of the unspoken reasons that black women can’t save is because we have unofficially been identified as the family ATM. With all too many of us embracing the “Superwoman to All But Herself” role in many a circle, we are judged by our ability to please others quickly, please others often, and please others sacrificially. We take Mama Maya’s “be the rainbow in somebody … [Read more...]
4 Ways to Save Yourself From Nickel and Diming Your Way Into the Poorhouse
One of the interesting things that I see as a personal finance coach supporting black women trying to regain control of their finances is that these women are in debt or have bad credit. It's not that they are poorly compensated and, as a result, have to resort to charging basic necessities on their credit cards. Rather, it is because they have money management issues. They … [Read more...]