Dear Dr. Buckingham, Is it wrong or a bad thing for it to bother me that my mate's ex of three years (divorce was legal 3 years ago, they were separated before that) called him at 11:57 pm to wish him a Happy Birthday (three minutes before the actual b-day) and also sent him a text. They were married approximately 8/9 years and have no children. She is aware that we live … [Read more...]