I "met" Deesha Phillywaw through her book Co-parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce. I wish I read her work before I became a co-parent. While dating a man with children, I didn't take into account certain things thoroughly discussed in the chapters of the book. For instance, I wasn't used to being someone's second priority and having to … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Diss a Man Just Because He Has Kids
If I've seen it once, I've seen it a dozen times. As a matchmaker and dating coach, I've watched smart, successful sisters make a deadly mistake in relationships: they refuse to date a man with kids! "But Dr. Aesha," they insist. "I don't have any kids. I kept myself, and I think it's only fair for me to have a standard that the man I marry doesn't have kids." A first date is … [Read more...]