We all know that marriage and relationships in general have their ups and downs. And it’s inevitable that both of you will go through some changes along the way. But what if those changes are so drastic that you feel like you caught a case of whiplash? What if one day you’re talking to your spouse and you’re seriously trying to figure out who you’re talking to, because they no … [Read more...]
No Renegotiation; The Difficulties of Dealing with Change in Your Marriage
One of my fav lines from New Jack City is when Nino is telling Frankie "no renegotiation." I never knew why out of all the great quotes in that movie, that one stuck with me all of these years. But I'm realizing this quote is how most folk feel in their marriages. When we get married to someone, we want that person to stay the exact same way they were when we married them. … [Read more...]