Dear Dr. Buckingham, Thank you so much for writing these wonderful and helpful articles. I would like to get some advice if possible. I was in a marriage to an emotional abuser and a cheater, which ended in divorce after giving it several chances. I am now dating someone whom I just gave a second chance after I found out he's been calling his baby mama almost everyday and … [Read more...]
Are You Being Guarded or Are You Guarding Your Heart?
In life we often exercise preventative measures and avoiding risk. This is definitely the case when it comes to the heart in love relationships. Whether single or well into a relationship, we have a decision to make almost daily to guard our heart or be guarded. Guarding your heart says: “I’m doing what’s best for me.” Being guarded says: “I’m defending myself against … [Read more...]
When It Comes to Love, Should You Really Follow Your Heart?
Ever heard of the phrase "Follow your heart?" We see it everywhere from the cartoons we saw growing up to lines in songs and graphics on T-shirts. It's a way of life to some people, creating a seemingly passionate and romantic way of living to the fullest. Choosing to follow your heart is a bold statement to make, but what does it mean exactly? In my opinion, following your … [Read more...]