In life we often exercise preventative measures and avoiding risk. This is definitely the case when it comes to the heart in love relationships. Whether single or well into a relationship, we have a decision to make almost daily to guard our heart or be guarded. Guarding your heart says: “I’m doing what’s best for me.” Being guarded says: “I’m defending myself against … [Read more...]
Is it Possible to Love Unconditionally?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am a single woman who has spent the majority of my life trying to please everyone. I grew up in a household where love was only expressed if certain conditions were met. Now, I find myself placing conditions on the men that I date. In order for me to express love, they have to meet certain conditions. I exploit men emotionally, physically, financially … [Read more...]
When It Comes to Love, Should You Really Follow Your Heart?
Ever heard of the phrase "Follow your heart?" We see it everywhere from the cartoons we saw growing up to lines in songs and graphics on T-shirts. It's a way of life to some people, creating a seemingly passionate and romantic way of living to the fullest. Choosing to follow your heart is a bold statement to make, but what does it mean exactly? In my opinion, following your … [Read more...]