Hello Doctor, I'm writing this out of pain and anger. I've been married since November 2015—only eight short months. My husband and I live in different cities, and the plan was for me to relocate to be with him. During my visits to see him, I noticed he was getting attention from other women. He was receiving text messages from women, and I found out he was visiting them … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Save a Desperate Marriage
Dear Dr. Buckingham, Hello. I have been married for 14 years. We have two children ages 16 and 10. I've had an emotional relationship with another man for 5 years. My husband is a gamer and our values are different. He spends a lot of his time gaming and he doesn't value a tidy home like I do among many other differences. Because of those issues we have been fighting for … [Read more...]
I Discovered My Husband Cheated Before Marriage; What Should I Do?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, My name is AJ. I have been married to my husband for 2 years, we have been together for 8. I recently found out that he cheated on me with two different women during the time we were dating. He swears he did not cheat while we have been married. I'm devastated by this. I feel like our whole relationship and marriage is a sham. I want to work this out … [Read more...]