On this week’s episode of It’s Not You, It’s Men, Tyrese & Rev. Run discuss: Why men cheat? Prior to the start of the show, 89% of the studio audience polled admitted to being cheated on or having cheated in a relationship. This kicked off the dialogue of why men cheat. What follows are arguments and counterarguments on the topic: Men are wired that way Tyrese stated that … [Read more...]
Monogamy Isn’t Natural and Neither is the Alternative
A recent article about “The New Monogamy” details shifting ideas about monogamy and how married couples are now being more open to exploring different ideas about what being faithful means. The article is just one of many shedding light on the ever-popular sentiment that monogamy isn’t “natural,” and by trying to force it, we’re ultimately doing more harm to our relationships … [Read more...]
Sorry But Open Relationships Will Never Be Okay
Recently, I was going through my e-mails and came across an article in a newsletter that shocked me. The very first line read, "Gone are those days when people were committed to just one person for the rest of their lives. Now is the era of casual dating, live-in relationships, no strings attached and open relationships." *Tires screeching* Um, excuse me? Clearly this person … [Read more...]
Is Monogamy Realistic?
by Harriet Hairston I read a recent article on CNN.com that made my blood boil. I couldn't even think of a better title than the one they provided in their "Mate Debate" section. The question seems like a no brainer to someone in my position: happily married with children. But apparently, it is an issue with many couples--both married and … [Read more...]