I have never believed in the fairytale that it seems most people ascribe to before they get married. So if you want to continue to live in the fairytale of what you think marriage is, stop here …. but if you want the unadulterated truth, please continue to read. Marriage has many good parts to it, but it takes work to get to that sweet spot where you have more good times … [Read more...]
17 Questions Every Woman Should Ask Herself Before She Gets Married
When my husband proposed to me, we had already been a part of each other’s lives for years. We met and developed a friendship when we were both 17. We didn’t get engaged until I was 28. Our history ran deep. Because of that, I knew a lot about him (and myself) before we decided to get married. And, even with that, we continue to learn more about each other every single year. … [Read more...]
Why You Shouldn’t Give in to the Pressure to Get Married Until You’re Ready
Do you hear that? Lean in and listen a little closer….That’s the sound of your family members and friends whispering the all too familiar in your ear: Girl what are you waiting on, you know you aren’t getting any younger!?” Or what about this one, You haven’t married that girl yet? I can see you right now rolling your eyes and thinking…”I wish they would shut up … [Read more...]
To Marry Or Not To Marry? Does Dad Have a Say?
A recent article from Black Enterprise tells the story of a young man, Steve, who upon asking his girlfriend's father for her hand in marriage was asked to reveal items such as his credit score, medical records and bank statements. Not sure whether to be appreciative or upset, Steve provided the requested information, fortunately with a clean record. However, what would have … [Read more...]