This past week I came across an interview with Queen Latifah, in which she discussed her new role as a caregiver to her aging mother. Latifah shared how much her life has changed since taking on this new responsibility. It was a harsh reminder that as we mature, we will face this challenge in one way or another. Unfortunately, this reality is rarely discussed in most … [Read more...]
My 3 Real-Life Lessons to Keep a Peaceful Home After Moving My Mom in with Us
Two months ago, my mother lost her husband to cancer. After almost three decades of matrimony and never having to pay a bill herself, she found herself alone, in debt, living in a house she could no longer afford on her social security. After I found out she had an estate sale, where she even sold her refrigerator to earn some cash, I said enough was enough. I told my wife … [Read more...]
The Sandwich Generation: 5 Tips to Maintain Your Relationship While Caring for Your Children & Parents
I had never heard of this term until recently. I was at the doctor's office being asked a bunch of questions. I answered the questions truthfully. The questioner's response, "You are almost a part of the sandwich generation." I had no idea what that meant. She went on to explain that there is a generation of folks striving to take care of their children and their aging parents … [Read more...]
Money Monday: The Sandwich Generation, Taking Care of Parents and Children
By Dr. Charles Alonzo Peters The recent deaths of my two grandmothers, both passing within the last month, forced me to face the reality that my own parents are getting on up in age. And witnessing the horrors our health care system, I realize that it will be up to my siblings and me to contribute significant financial resources in order to ensure they receive the best … [Read more...]