Husbands and wives get intimate with BMWK and share some of the most intimate details and private thoughts about their relationship in our He said, She said lasting love series.

Alright people.  It’s time for some truth.  Our husbands and wives get really real when they answer “What is the one thing you wish you could say to your spouse…but you can’t?”

Check here to read:  25 Husbands Answer “What Is the One Thing You Wish You Could Say to Your Wives…but You Can’t?”

1.  Put a lid on it

“Shut the hell up!” – 31, married 5 years

2. Faking It

“I put on a tough girl front for the world.  In reality, I want to be protected from the world by you” – 46, married 9 years

3. Big Baller

“You need to grow some balls sometimes” – 39, married 4 years

4. Scaredy cat

“Sometimes, I fear we won’t make it” –  27, married 2 years

5. Cut the crap

“Stop being so damn petty / bitchy” – 38, married 31 days

6. What goes around

“I don’t go down anymore because you stopped” – 48, married 21 years

7. Get with the program

“Hurry up and figure it out!” – 35, married 10 years

8. Speak on it

“Learn how to express yourself more in disagreements.  Stop shutting down.” – 45, married 9 years

9. You name it

“I’m sorry for…” – 45, married 13 years 

10. Mommy Dearest

“Your mother is horrible” –  44, married 6 years

11. The smell test

“I wish you would apply better personal hygiene at all times” – 34, married 11 years

12. Breathing room

“It’s hard to be the responsible one all the time. I never get a chance to fall down or just breathe because no one will step in and take responsibility” – 34, married 7 years

13. Heavy topic

“I really wish you would lose some weight.” – 38, married 4 years

14. Underestimated

“I’m stronger than you think” – 37, married 10 years

15. Overestimated!

“You need more stamina.” – 40, married 11 years

16. Horny

“I need more sex.” – 39, married 4 years

17. Food fight

“I wish you would stop comparing my meals to your grandmothers” – 33, married 8 years

18. Throwback

“I miss how close we were and I want that back” – 35, married 14 years

19. Boost

“I think you need some therapy regarding your childhood trauma” – 35, married 6 years

20. Front and center

“I love oral.” – 44, married 11 years

21. Stink tank

“Your feet smell.” – 43, married 10 years

22. Cheat Sheet

“Why the *#$! are you always cheating?” – 35, married 4 years

23. First and foremost

“I just want to be the most important person in the world to you.” – 37, married 11 months

24. Whine and dine

“If you don’t like your job, find a better one. Stop complaining.” – 43, married 8 years

25. Blind eye

“I hate when you don’t accept your own faults.” – 42, married 4 years

BMWK wives, any of this sound familiar? What Is something else you wish you could say to your husband, but you can’t?

Check out what the husbands had to say here.