All ride or die wives want a husband that will also be there through thick and thin. Wives want a husband that will be supportive and loving. A wife doesn’t have a problem with her husband taking his place as spiritual leader in the household if she knows who his spiritual leader is. So if husbands want a ride or die wife, below are some things they need to know.
1. You need to know where you want to go. If you don’t know which direction to take, seek the wisdom of God. Your wife doesn’t expect you to know everything, but knowing that you seek the Word instead of your family and friends all the time will make your wife feel safer.
2. You need to have a plan. Now that you know where you want to go, you need a plan of action. Your wife likes that you have a plan for your lives. Knowing that you have goals and are not just a spinning top hoping to land anywhere will propel your wife to back you up.
3. You need to acknowledge your wife as your co- pilot. You know where you want to go and you have a plan to get there. Now is the time to recognize your wife as your help. Don’t think you have to do everything on your own; you have a help meet, a strong woman that has your back. You and your wife are a team, you can rely on her. Also, do ask her opinion before making decisions that will affect the household.
Your wife chose to ride with you the day she recited her vows. Knowing where you are going, having a plan and acknowledging your wife will guarantee that she will stay on the ride with you therefore making her a ride or die wife.
BMWK Husbands – are you giving your wife a reason to be a ride or die wife?