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5 Text Messages You Should Send Your Spouse Today

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In the everyday flow of life sometimes the little things come up big. Since we’re always trying to hook you up when it comes to strengthening your marriage, today we’re going to give you 5 messages that you can text to your spouse that will make them feel oh so special. Check out our list below, fill in the blanks and hit send! Also let us know if you have an idea for another great text that we may have missed out on.

1. Thank you for doing _______________ for me and the kids last _______________. I just wanted to let you know how much our family appreciates and needs you. I have something special for you tonight.

2. When I think about you it reminds me of _______________ and how much I really love you. I hope that we can _______________. I have something special for you tonight.

3. The thing that I love about you is _______________ and how you _______________. _______________   is how I know that you were the one I was intended to live the rest of my life with. I have something special for you tonight.

4. I promise to be better at _______________. I have something special for you tonight.

5. The thing that I appreciate the most about you is _______________. Everyday that we _______________ makes me feel _______________. I have something special for you tonight.

Noticed that every text ends with, “I have something special for you tonight.”   Enjoy!

About Lamar Tyler

Lamar Tyler is co-creator BlackandMarriedWithKids.com. He also is the co-producer of the films Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me, Men Ain't Boys and Still Standing.

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  3. The Travelin Diva says

    You are killing me by ending each one with “I have something special for you tonight.”   Hilarious!   LMAO

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  4. says

    One of our FB fans said she sent this one:

    ” i sent , The thing that I
    Love about you is dedication and how you are dedicated to me is how I
    know that you were the one I was intended to live with the rest of my
    life with! I have something special for you tonight.”   -Yessssssssssssss

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  5. MrsT says

    These are great! I just sent:

    Thank you for giving up your evening to fix the  refrigerator  last night [it had to be disassembled,defrosted and  reassembled, took about 3 hours]. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate and need you. I have something special for you tonight.
    Thanks BMWK!

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    • says

      Now that right there…. that’s special. After the man gave up his night doing ’round the house handywork to feel someone stop and appreciate you is special! I know he liked that.

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  7. Steffani says

    I love how they all end with “I have something special for you tonight”. Too cute. I’m sure that makes any message sound good

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    • says

      Right. You could write, “I just spent the mortgage on a shopping trip to DSW Shoes, PS I have something special for you tonight” and your husband will be like yeah buddy!!!

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  14. Staycee2 says

    This site will hold the WORST marriage together!!!!!!!   Y’all are of the chain & I love it!!!!   Keep it coming keep it coming!!!!   I’m texting right now!!!!   I wish much success & nothing less!!

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  15. Staycee2 says

    UPDATE!!!   Sent my husband #3 with a twist n he responded, “THAT MEANS A LOT TO ME, THANKS STA”!!!!   ILUVMESUMHIM!!!!!!!

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  19. Kwright447 says

    But what if you only have sex on vacation? With that ending he’ll be expecting something more, if I just bring him dinner or a cup of coffee, he’ll probably be disappointed.

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  23. says

     Just sent to my husband…I want to thank you for picking up the evening slack, with football and cheer practice, cooking sometimes and ironing the kids clothing in the morning.   I just wanted to let you know how much our family appreciates you. I have something special for you tonight. ILY

    Reply from him:   Thank you baby, ILY2 & am looking forward to it.

    In the hustle and bustle of kids, work & life we often forget to say I appreciate you, we always say I love you but many forget to say I appreciate you, thanks for the reminder.

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  24. says

    I love this article. Now my husband work the night shift…so I had to improvise…LOL. I also text him a few mins ago “Thank you for proving to me that not all men are the same babe…I Love You”. I know when he open his msg and see that text….he will have the biggest grin on his face.

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    • says

      Just switch to when you get home! I’m sure he’ll appreciate that and look forward to getting back even more. Plus you’ve got more time to plan something amazing!

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  28. Onedestiny777 says

    I send my hubs special text almost everyday and he loves them and I don’t always end with ‘I’ll have something special for you tonight.’. Truthfully speaking, if that implies sex I won’t tgat every night. Nonetheless, we have that a lot of nights (I’m not one of these wives that thinks once a week is good enough) but every text does not have to imply that. I think the words of appreciation alone are a good thing for marriage, so I sat and text affirmative words to my hubby often. Then I DO nice things that are often little surprises. I liked your text without the end sentence. Realistically speaking you may not have something special for him every night. I do believe that you should do the best you can on both end to do something nice as many days and nights as possible.

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  29. Onedestiny777 says

    I send my hubs special text almost everyday and he loves them and I don’t always end with ‘I’ll have something special for you tonight.’ Truthfully speaking, if that implies sex I won’t have that for him every night. Nonetheless, we have that a lot of nights (I’m not one of these wives that thinks once a week is good enough) but every text does not have to imply that. I think the words of appreciation alone are a good thing for marriage, so I say and text affirmative words to my hubby often. Then I DO nice things that are often little surprises. I liked your text without the end sentence. Realistically speaking you may not have something special for him every night. I do believe that you should do the best you can on both end to do something nice as many days and nights as possible.

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  30. PPOWife1221 says

    *1st MESSAGE SENT* I defnately have something for him tonight! I LOVE MY FIANCE!! I Thank u for this group! ((INSPIRING))

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  31. says

    Love this article.   The text I sent my husband:   “I promise to be better at letting you lead.”   As strong woman this was huge for me, but I instantly felt a sense of peace!   Awesome.

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  36. cdhouse says

    I sent a variation of #3, One thing that I love about you is the consideration of my family’s feelings and how you love them just as much as I do. It has always been how I know that you are the one I was intended to live the rest of my life with. I love you more today than I did yesterday!

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  37. elena says

    I thank & I praise God 4groups like this who inspires others & actually interacts with the members on their page instead of 4show. I love 2cthose who live by Only what U do 4 CHRIST WILL LAST. I APPRECIATE THIS GROUP. WE ALL NEED MENTORS & ADVICE NO MATTER HOW LONG WE’VE BEEN MARRIED OR HOW OLD WE GET. WITH THAT SAID I SENT THIS 2MY HUSBAND NO MATTER WHAT WE MAY GO THROUGH 2DAY OR 2MAR AS LONG AS WE FACE IT 2GETHER THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS U R TRULY MY GOD FEARING HUSBAND & I ALSO SENT #1 THX AGAIN & GOD BLESS

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  45. HisLove says

    I’m not married but in a serious relationship. We are both practicing celibacy until we get married. What can I do for him that will be intimate and romantic that will not just end up in wanting to indulge in sex?

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  47. interesting says

    #4
    How’s this?

    I promise to be better at everything because you seem to think everything I do is wrong. I have something SPECIAL for you tonight……

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  48. anita says

    I love the “I have something special for you”, because it does not have to always include sex it could be a nice dinner, or a massage, a nice bath with candles soft music, and flower pedals, or even giving him some flowers and candy or whatever, I think that is the most fun part is him trying to figure out the “I have something special for you” so think outside the box, and spice it up with the I have something special for you

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  50. says

    Having read this I thought it was very enlightening.
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    But so what, it was still worth it!

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