“I don’t care!” That’s what we really want to say when you ask 1000 questions about something that we really don’t have an opinion about. You get mad because we act like we don’t have anything to say, but the truth is that we REALLY just didn’t have anything to say. Ok, so to avoid anymore disagreements ladies, these are just a few things that men really don’t care very much about! Follow me….
[imagebrowser id=339]
I know this to be true and it helps to be reminded so thank you. We ladies can really take on unnecessary stress and pressure that isn’t even “real” sometimes.
Ahem…what if I told you that the only reason why we go out of our way to find out if you approve of something is out of respect for our men.. we know you could care less about many things we chose to do as long as it is in good taste. However, we also understand the male ego :). That’s why we do the things that we do, because we Care about your feelings and essentially we are trying to maintain balance within our household. Cheers!
Dumbest article ever. Appreciate the effort but its all contradictory we don’t care how you look, but don’t let it be too short, tight etc… we don’t care what you cook, as long as it’s what we like. I have never met a woman who thought,”He won’t have sex with me if my nails are chipped!” As long as its a card we don’t care what it
says… Happy birthday as a condolence card I mean come on. They care not overtly but frankly women don’t either. I know its from a male perspective, so expected, but really thought it would be deeper than how do I look and what’s for dinner 😐
agreed
I guess in a way you covered it in the last slide… but could you please tell me if men care about stretch marks???
Great Article. It is 100% true and funny at the same time. lol
Ha! This article is hilarious 🙂 Honestly, I cant lie…he’s like all of them, except #4. My husband is pretty wierd about clothes. Has to be modest, functional, and neat…any stains, wrinkles etc. he zooms in on it like a hawk from orbit ;p
So about stretch marks…this one made me smile and here’s why. I started to get stretch marks on my thighs when I was 11/12 years old. Even THEN I thought “no man will ever want me!!!” As crazy as it sounds it’s true. Needless to say some 20 years later….I’ve never been shunned, turned down, told to put clothes back on etc bc of my stretch marks. Even landed a husband lol. I’m not a man, but I will put money on the fact that so long as you are confident in how you look and own your feminity, a man will be VERY attracted to you, stretch marks or not. Plus….do you know how many women have them? You are NOT in the minority and their is no shortage of love and lust for us members of the “tiger stripe” community :->
My husband cares about all of these.
Cortney I feel where you are coming from and we appreciate it. The whole point of this article wasn’t to say we don’t appreciate all that you do it was just to tell you that sometimes the details don’t mean as much to us as they do to you. Thank you for considering us and for caring about our feelings but just don’t be surprised if we don’t have a bunch of “input” in the process. Thanks for reading!
Dimp while you may disagree I appreciate you taking the time to read the article. The point here was not to say that we don’t care at all, but more so to say that we don’t care as much about the details that women may care about sometimes. This may not be true for all men but what I find is that for many women they can get really frustrated when they feel like we don’t have an in depth opinion about something like which card to get their auntie for Christmas. We may care that you get a card but if we don’t have an opinion on the type of card and what brand it is then it’s no big deal. The point is a bigger one and more about some of the differences in mindsets. I hate that it came off as dumb to you but I hope my comments provided some clarity. Thanks again for reading.
Yolanda I agree that sometimes the stress is for reasons that shouldn’t be stressful. Just by knowing and understanding some of the differences in how men and women think can save a lot of that stress. My point here was to not say that men don’t care but to say that men don’t care about all of the details AS MUCH as women do. Thanks for reading and for your comments!
Thanks Andrew!
DCP I have yet to hear of a man who wouldn’t be sexual with his woman because of her stretch marks! Stretch marks are a part of life and especially if they come from you bearing his children. Many times the stretch marks mean more to the woman than the man but if they are a deal breaker for him then he might be pretty shallow.
IK thank for reading. Nothing we ever write can be absolutes so I am only writing from my experience and all of the men I know and come in contact with. Im glad to see that your man finds all of these things important and i have no doubt that most men do as well, we just don’t care as much about the details (in general). Thanks again for reading!
Hilarious article! I chuckled all the way through. Very insightful too!