I love to see couples that really enjoy each other. They seem so carefree and it’s like their marriage is very comfortable. They have that “grown and sexy” vibe about them. That makes me want my marriage to be grown and sexy too. I think we are getting there. We’ve been married 16 years and we have pretty much learned each other and are comfortable with each other.
Issues still come up, but we’ve learned how to deal with them. These signs below are in no particular order, but I think they are necessary in a grown and sexy marriage.
Each marriage is different and what works for one couple may not work for another. Whatever works for you to have a grown and sexy marriage, do it.
BMWK family check out the gallery below then tell us what do you think makes a marriage grown and sexy ?
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Tim Rush says
Love the post! I’d add one more thing…You’re ok with submitting to one another. It doesn’t always have to be about you! In fact, you enjoy the pleasure you give your spouse.
LaToya says
That is so true Tim, my husband says the same thing!
Anonymous says
Hello! Latoya what I find very unique! Is put your selfish ways and having more concern to accepting your spouse ways, not saying you have to accept everything, but you sitting done and talking it threw man that’s not an easy task ! It like garden it always has to check and fertilizes .
LaToya says
You are right Anonymous! You can’t be selfish! Keep the lines of communication open.
Stella Chic says
Good Article! Another sign of a “grown & sexy” marriage is when you have open communication. Couples should be able to freely discuss honest emotions without worrying that the their mate will get offended.
LaToya says
Right Stella!
Superwife says
These are very good. I am still going to go through the phone occasionally – and probably always will. The others – we are already there or really close to achieving this balance and harmony. Thanks for the list.
LaToya says
Superwife, why are you going through the phone??? Glad you are close to achieving the balance and harmony!!
Tlee says
I have been divorced for 5yrs now and my 1st marriage was a disaster. But God has sent a wonderful man in me and my son’s life. After reading your article it has truly help me prepare myself for when we do get married which wil be sometime next year.
LaToya says
Congratulations Tlee!!! I’m glad my article helped!
Antionette Blake says
Yesterday we celebrated our 23rd Wedding Anniversary and are looking forward to our retirement years together!
Chris says
We are coming up on 8th year!!! Anniversary thank you Jesus !! for teaching us to put are ways aside!! God is love?
LaToya says
Congratulations Chris!!!!
Nika says
Sigh….My husband and I had this early in our marriage it seemed and things happened that distroyed it all. The problem now is how to get back to this?? Praying for a renewal of these signs!
LaToya says
Nika, you can get it back if both of you want it. I suggest forgiveness and prayer. Talk to your husband and explain your feelings. Be blessed!
10 months in says
We are ten months end and these tips have helped us tremendously. We are still adjusting to the time and quality time portion. I find surprisingly I am ok but my husband is adjusting a bit slower. How do you get through the free time apart?
LaToya says
10 months in, are you spending a lot of time apart? If so, is it work related?
10 Months says
We spend too much time together and time apart brings a great strain on the relationship.
LaToya says
10 Months, why is the time apart a strain? How much time apart are you spending?
Osemwenkhae Osemwengie says
I will like to refer you to past issue i came across in your web;it is about The family: from Christian perspective by Judith o. Balswick,i will like to read the book if you can forward it to me.
Thanks,
Osemwengie,
Nigeria.
Sheree Scott says
I can truly say that according to your list after 17yrs of marriage my husband and I have a grown and sexy marriage! Some of the things we laugh the hardest at are the things that almost broke us up! LOL!!! It took us long enough to get to where we are now but thank God we’re here!! 🙂
LaToya says
Congrats Sheree!!!!
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