Being a husband can be rough. They have to provide and protect for their family. Make sure they’re tending to their wife’s needs. Help out with the kids if they have any. As well as deal with everything life throws at them. They put in some work and all many want in return is love, loyalty, support, good food, and a little booty. Ok maybe not just a little.. but a lot of booty. I mean is that really too much to ask for? Unfortunately the booty doesn’t always come as often as they would like. Many have to attempt to initiate some action a lot more then they feel they should have to. Some will use techniques that actually work against them more than they of working for them. Here are a few approaches a husband may want to reconsider.
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MUM23 says
THAT DMN SHOULDER TAP DRIVES ME NUTS! WHEN MY HUSBAND DOES IT I ENVISION CRUSHING HIS HAND LIKE CRACKERS. I’M DEEP IN MY MUCH NEEDED SLEEP AND I WAKE TO A TAP ON MY SHOULDERS AND BAT EYES STARING AT ME LOL!
JA says
Your comment just made me laugh out loud for real.Hilarious!
Darlene says
Me 2!
Anonymous says
Or implying that what your wife won’t do, another woman will.
*blank stare*
Well go find that woman, then.
Anonymous says
Omg, yes! I’m glad those words never came out of my husband’s mouth, but if they ever did, we would not get any until I decided I was no longer upset.
Mrs. D. Mitch says
This was funny to me but it’s because it’s mostly me doing some variation of the aforementioned. My husband’s drive is high but mine is much higher so I have to chase him half the time. And that last one? I use that scripture to get my husband to come around if all else fails, so for us, it’s the opposite. Everything on this list I’ve probably done and more(way more lol). I always find it funny that most women don’t enjoy their husbands more, but then again, not many people are like me.
the girl says
I feel the same way. I’m like, where is the article teaching wives how to get their husbands to give it up more often?? I need that advice.
Amertoo says
I am with you on this one. My husband and I have been married 24 years. We are in our 40’s. I have read that a woman’s sex drive increases during this time. Mine has definitely improved. I have talked to him about the things, written him letters telling him exactly what I need and want. I am definitely feeling more adventurous. I have even told him that his lack interest was really hurting me and making me feel undesirable and unwanted. He tells me everyday that he loves me and I know that he does. The caviat is I am partially responsible for this, I think, but not intentionally. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 13 years ago. We have been through some difficult years in the sex department. I have always worked full time, and still do, so fatigue was often a factor. I was blessed with being given a new medication about 18 months ago that has changed my life. I have more energy and it seems as all the fun girlie parts have woken up again! I have taken good care of myself. I am 5’9″, weigh 145 lbs, have a decent figure. Not a beauty queen by any stretch, but average. This is really affecting my self-esteem. I am at my wits end on this one. I want us both to enjoy the sexual part of our relationship. We have a lot of years left! Even more if we are having sex! Any suggestions??
theMrs says
This was funny..but my husband and I are different. We have been together 12 yrs and have always had a very active sex life. We use to have sex at least twice a day. Now it’s at least 4-6 times per week unless my auntie has come for a visit and even then we get a little creative if the mood strikes…lol. When talking with my friends I’m finding that’s not the norm. I’ve learned that being down for the cause gets me out of a lot of things like laundry..housework..getting the kids ready for school..etc.lol
Rory says
How long until the “My Husband is No Longer Interested in Having Sex With Me Because I’m Flaky About Having Sex” article? 🙂
Seriously, I just don’t think most wives understand how serious a man’s need for sex with his wife is. It baffles me that a woman thinks she can refuse and deny her husband sex regularly and expect him to be continually warm and loving towards her.
And yes, I’m speaking from experience.
Alex says
The problem isn’t the sex itself, but how it seems men seem to think learning what turns on their wife is optional. I love sex, but a tap will almost make me feel like I’m just a machine to you. I mean, I’m writing this message by *tapping* on my iphone screen. :-/
Learn your spouse. Some may think all the things above are awesome, some may not. It’s your job (men and women) to find out which helps preserve your intimacy the best.
Healthy Relationships says
Hey Rory check out “5 Reasons His Wife Isn’t Getting Any” => https://bmwk.me/1dEi0FH it touches on some of what you’re saying.
joe says
Good to know that there’s women willing to show the other side that women like sex just as much as men….
Ralph says
My wife turned me on to black and married with kids. I am looking forward to visiting this regularly, because I believe you can teach an old dog new tricks.
Cee says
I love being intimate with my husband but knowing that he flirts with other women and was not helping the the kids At A Time I really needed him really turned me off and made me insecure. That’s why our sex life was lacking. Now that we are separated and probably getting divorced…The sex is awesome and we treat each other better…go figure.
Help says
I understand and agree with this article but what advice can you give a woman who’s not getting enough sex in her relationship? I love him and don’t want to make it sll about sex but I am highly attracted to and in love with him…so I want it all the time but only getting it about twice a month smh. He says he is attracted to me and loves me more than anything. What can I do? By the way, I’m also ten years younger than him.
Anonymous says
Yes, that was too funny! I don’t understand some of these women or men for that matter. Just because you’re giving your husband some every time he wants it doesn’t save your marriage.