I love the fact that I “get to” have a full life that belongs to me. Moreover, I’m not a proponent for everyone in the world that has an internet connection knowing my whereabouts and what I am doing all of the time. For me that feels a bit creepy and imposing.
I challenge those that have become social media famous through creating an identity from fabricated truths to make a conscious effort in 2015 to be authentic and show a broader scope of your life. Post a comment about the truth of a single woman at home on a Tuesday night that longs to be in a relationship and have a family. Post about your failures as parents or your fears of raising a black, gay or special needs child in America today. I guarantee that your post will resonate with someone and reassure them they are not alone. Aim to connect and uplift others rather than trying to outshine or denigrate them. Post a picture of you helping someone you don’t know personally, lending yourself to a worthy cause, or being a role model for the voiceless. Start an end racism, sexism, poverty challenge on social media. Be bigger, be better, be your real authentic self.
I invite those of us that have been blessed to live and give in 2015, to reach beyond and rise above your personal New Year’s resolutions that self-exalt, self-promote, and super-exaggerate our individual agendas to become a part of something larger. Open yourself up to God’s vision for you. Stop presenting yourself in a limited one dimensional way via fabricated truths on social media. Stop looking to LIKES, SHARES, and RETWEETS for validation. Like yourself, Share your gifts and talents, and Retweet service, respect for self, and love for others.
In 2015, will you remember to be grateful for your life, health, and the love of your family and friends on a daily basis? In 2015 will you be bold enough to lay down your will, step into your truth and trust that God is constant even in your darkest most undeserving hours? In 2015 will you venture to live an authentic life rather than fabricate one that you want others to believe you have? Will you strive to be your best self in 2015?
BMWK, what will you do in 2015 to be your best?
Renee says
I intend to challenge myself by reading multiple devotionals, periodic fasting and prayer, and finding new volunteer activities.
LaDawn Elliott says
Hello Renee, You have the right idea idea of how to start the New Year. You have selected activities that will contribute to your spiritual and overall growth and well-being. I wish you well and challenge you to influence those around you through your example to join you. Thanks for reading my article. Please feel free to share it with your family and friends.