Can a man change for the woman he claims to love? If a woman finds out her man is talking inappropriately to a coworker and she tells him to stop, but later catches him emailing the same woman, "I love you." He says he 'messed up.' He apologizes and says he doesn't want the other woman. She takes him back, only to find out months later that not only is he still talking to her, … [Read more...]
Beyond Sexy: Loving the Woman That Lies Within Her
When a woman enters a room, even quietly, men notice almost instinctively. It’s been this way since the very first woman, Eve, entered the world. No announcement is necessary. Her very presence is the kindest disruption of space and time, commanding the attention of men everywhere who love her. In awe, men watch as if their eyes have never beheld the beauty of a woman, one of … [Read more...]
“Gender Speak”: The Two Faces of Healthy Communication
"The worst thing that can happen (between us) is if we don't talk." Those were the words I heard often, from my father, when I was a child. Grammar aside, that was a principle that he instilled in my siblings and I, stressing the dire necessity of communication in a relationship. As a child, you don't fully grasp the gravity of such foundational principles until you become … [Read more...]
2 Principles that Separate Boys from Men When Dating Women
"A man is only as faithful as his options." This quote is a gross mischaracterization of men, carelessly stroked with a very broad brush. The ill-famed sentiment it engenders gains much ground in the minds of many ladies whose experiences cause those words to resonate with them, like the clashing sound of cymbals struck with the intensity and rapidity of a seasoned … [Read more...]
2 Reasons Why Men (That Don’t Matter) Don’t Pursue
Recently, I read a statement that was written with the intention of giving an explanation as to why men don’t pursue women today. Here was the explanation. “Men don’t pursue women because they don’t have to.” At one time or another, you may have said this yourself or at least heard this expressed by someone else. If you take just a cursory look at this assertion, it sounds … [Read more...]