Understanding Issues
Men and women are very different, and sometimes those differences can cause misunderstandings. Sometimes she needs time and attention, and he thinks she just needs money and gifts. Sometimes he is begging for affection, and she thinks he just needs meals and a tidy home. Sometimes the love languages are different and the needs and behaviors are different, but the gaps can be bridged through understanding.
The point of this blog isn’t that you have to go airing out all of your dirty laundry. My point is that we all go through issues, but it’s the seeking of a perfect perception that keeps us from addressing issues and working through them. More relationships and marriages can survive if we just seek progress instead of perfection and be okay with acknowledging that yes…even the BEST relationships have pitfalls.
If the good between couples in relationships don’t exist in a bubble or vacuum, then neither does the bad. When we become more comfortable with that fact and not so accustomed to trying to save face, we can learn sometimes our own transparency can help others in the same boat.
[tps_footer]BMWK, do you avoid issues when they arise in your marriage? Are there certain issues that shouldn’t be addressed publicly?[/tps_footer]
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