For married couples, sex is beautiful and pleasing to God. Also, the marriage bed is undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). However, the marriage bed can be boring and uncreative. This is especially true if you add work, bills, children, and anything else that fights for your attention to the mix.
The worst thing a couple can do is allow sex to become a chore that both parties are secretly getting tired of, or choosing sleep over.
Question: How’s your sex life? New question: How’s your WIFE’S sex life? Do you know if she’s REALLY pleased? God forbid she’s faking it. Would she tell you the truth?
Don’t stress yourself out. Here are 5 things your wife is craving in the bedroom. Don’t tell her I told you, just show up and deliver. You’re welcome 🙂
Craving #1 – Romance
With the exception of a sometimes necessary quickie, your wife is craving romance. In the words of Teddy Pendergrass, “Turn off the lights and light a candle”. Shoot, light multiple candles. Have John Legend on Spotify playing in the background.
Pull out the massage oils that she received as gifts from her bridal shower, but has yet to use, and give her the massage of her dreams. Allow her to forget about the stress of the day by feeding her strawberries and champagne. There’s a difference between romance and sex. However, romance easily paves the way for a pleasurable evening.
Craving #2 – Foreplay
To piggy back off of your wife craving romance, she desires foreplay. I know you’re turned on from a simple peck on the lips, but sometimes it takes more to make her “love come down;” so get busy.
You are 100% guaranteed to have an orgasm from having sex missionary style.
Your wife? Not so much. No worries, there are PLENTY of ways to reach her “G spot”.
- Reverse cow-girl.
Take your pick, and let her get hers FIRST.
Craving #4 – Words of affirmation while in the act
If you’re able to catch your breath or utter out more than a groan, try saying “You’re beautiful” or “I love you so much” while making love. Trust me, your wife will remember it and cherish this long after you two have done the “do.”
Craving #5 – A sensual recap
After it’s all said and done, don’t disappear to go check the score of the game. Lay with her for awhile and hold her. Let her know she’s the best you ever had and how good she makes you feel. Kiss her, but be careful, because you may start another round.
BMWK Wives! Hey ladies hey! Did I miss anything?