I remember it like it was yesterday.
During my single years, I would continuously ask:
God, how will You reveal my spouse to me?
- Would a light come out of the sky?
- Would she glow like an angel?
- Would I hear trumpets play when our eyes caught each other?
No two stories are the same, but there are two ways you can learn from the marriage of Adam and Eve that may help you see how and when God will reveal your spouse to you.
God Will Reveal Your Spouse in the Right Season.
Adam was living his life in complete purpose before God decided it was time for him to have a suitable helpmate to aid in the next phase of fulfilling his destiny.
Adam was right where God wanted him to be and doing exactly what He called him to do. That is one of the biggest, though often overlooked, keys to God revealing your spouse.
You must be in the right season of your life before God will allow you to find the right one. God’s ways are so much higher than our ways, and He knows exactly what He is doing.
What does it look like to be in the right season?
- God’s peace will be released into the relationship.
- Your heart is fixed on God and his purpose for your life.
What does a wrong season look like?
- You are still getting over another relationship
- You may have a lot of unhealthy friendships with the opposite sex that are preventing you from recognizing the one because your attention are in the other places.
Understanding your seasons and submitting to God’s training and growth accordingly are pivotal in when and how God unveils the one He has planned for you.
God Will Reveal Your Spouse In the Right Environment.
The next key thing we see with Adam and Eve is Adam was in the right environment or even better received as he was in a physical location that was conducive for his development, growth, and fulfillment of purpose.
Now, how does that transfer into today’s World since we no longer have a Garden of Eden.
The right environment means being around the right people and spending time in the right places.
Why is this important?
Because God requires in 2 Corinthians 6:14 that we be equally yoked with in our relationships. By putting ourselves in the right environments it’s most likely you will meet someone who also is spending their time with the right people and in the right places.
The Lesson: These are two key ways that God will reveal your spouse. When you take the time to be faithful in the season that you’re in as well as center yourself with the right people in the right places, you are setting yourself up for a successful revealing of your spouse.
BMWK, How did God reveal your mate to you?
While I wait on God’s revelation, I am going about His business. Thank you for emphasizing the spiritual aspects. While I have read material that suggests otherwise, I know that God orchestrates my steps and knows best. He does not need my assistance.
I believe that in due season God will reveal my better half to me cos i will be at the right place and at the right time.
This article was well done. Thanks again for the spiritual insight!!!
There is no cookie cutter time for the “when”, “where”, “why”, and especially “how” of spouse revelation. No set age, no set status of success (this includes spiritual success). However, we do know that our God is jealous and works all things together for the good. Everything he does will be for His glory. Pointing singles to focus on their relationship with the Lord is always a great way to encourage. One piece of advice that I find most helpful “you shouldn’t be afraid of missing God (and his best), as it pertains to a spouse, if you’re following the steps he has ordered for you.
Thank you
I am pretty much sure I’m still in the right track God, please release my spouse I’m ready for him
Lord help me and my spouse to get married soon and to live a clean Christian Life style.
I been dreaming about this marvelous guy for a year now and I will say I would love for us as individuals to get whatever we need out of life and make things right so we can get together and have things right for eachother as couple
Thanks so much sir
I believe that I have met the man I asked God to give me
Still praying that the Holy Spirit would unite us in heart and in mind
Thank you
I’m 50 years of age now and I seek a loving, respectful, honest companionship. I pray God will bless me with the desires of my heart…a true companion/spouse.
Hello there! I am also in a situation wherein i am waiting for the right one.that’s the reason why i thought of befriending with someone with faith in God who have the same situation so i could have someone to share my thoughts and fears too since i am ashamed to tell this to my friends here.
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I am having two suitors and this article helped in a way.. I have prayed for God’s wisdom and his will to be clarified to me
Who is my future husband?
Good sight. But am comforted to learn that even at 55, never married, I can still get a suitable wife from my country uganda
Good sight. But am comforted to learn that even at 55, never married, I can still get a suitable wife from my country uganda
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Interesting stuff. I will always visit this site for the signals and inspiration.
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I am now fully born again, but the fiance is someone’s husband though separated, I don’t have the conviction God wants us together.
I’ve enjoyed reading the posted articles..
Thank you brother Jamal. For enlightened me on the right and wrong seasons. Now it makes sense. God bless you and family.
I thank God that He directed me to search this site for me to do the right thing in the right place. God bless you
Insightful and encouraging piece. God bless you for sharing.
I am seeking the Christian man whom God Jehovah has planned for me to spend the rest of my life with. I know he is out there sincerely. Loving God and awaiting the appropriate season of our life
I thank the Almighty God for this website.please join me in prayers. My daughter is getting marry by His Grace next year January 8th that their Union should be God in the center of it??????
I thank the Almighty God for this website.please join me in prayers. My daughter is getting marry by His Grace next year January 8th that their Union should be God in the center of it.Amen Amen n Amen
I have surrounded to God’s will too, I am 46, my over 4 years relationship broke, he left me. Got two boys and so much God reviled in last few weeks, I learned to look in and up. Had so much unforgivness and even bitterness which blinded me. I believe if this was the man from God, things would be different, now I will wait for God. He knows I need companion, his timing will be good. I have hope and I have faith, praise tge Lord in my brokenness. Amen
I love this article on God Timeing. For relationship is the right way to go. Be bless
The lord showed me in a vision while I was working on my job. Yet praying about him that the lord will bring this together & make us one. I pray also that the lord would let him see me find his self thinking about me more.God word is his bond.
Glad I came across this material, Hav e a clearer understanding on relationships. Enjoyed. Will keep reading your discussions, very informative. Thks.
I believe it was the heavenly father Jehovah Lord I am that show me and that figure someone out that I’ve been ignoring for a long while for I just add and multiply her month and her birthday number together and I got her number the one she has with 70×7= add all together and got her number to match with her month and date came out 49 lol I dont know how to explain this but how do you know if God telling you who your wife? Amen God bless you E-out
This piece was very insightful, made it sort of like an eye opener. Thank you so much. I ask God to help me stay more true to him, do the things he wants me to, be in line with him much more than ever and most importantly constantly reminds me to stay away from unhealthy friendship.
I started dating this guy recently, we are both law students. I remember the actual day he asked me out was the actual day i cried out to God asking for a man and promising to abide in him through the relationship as individuals and that very day he asked me i said yes. The past three months we’ve dated he was diagonosed with Prostate cancer now i can’t help but continue being hopeful that things will be fine. Is he the man for me or not?
Lord help me and my spouse to get married soon and to live a clean Christian Life style.
I just wanted to be happy and live for God.and my spouse and I live for christ
I am happy to be on this site.
Hi simone
Am confused and depressed right now
Right from when i was a child i prayed about my spouse and now it’s time am confused
Have prayed,fasted and now am just tossed to and fro with people’s answers to me instead of my own convinctions and decernment as a child of God.
Didn’t the Bible say God is not the Author of confusion? Why am i in this state now,why ???? not happy can’t hold it any more
Fify
I just met a guy we dated for few months…but he seems not interested in me but im..am I allowed to pray and ask God’s grace to be loved by him, or it have to come natural from the guy.
More like confuse with with two good young men ready to tie the knot leaning of God for the right one among the two. I believe his desire is the best for me
More like confuse with two good young men ready to tie the knot leaning on God for the right one among the two. I believe his desire is the best for me.