What I won’t do…is apologize for being me. I definitely won’t apologize for feeling the way I do. And I most certainly won’t apologize for doing what God put me on earth to do.
I guess I’ve been emboldened by U.S. House Representative Alcee Hastings. In a committee hearing, the Democrat from Florida said Texas was a “crazy state”. When a Republican Texas Rep. asked for an apology, Hastings said, “You will wait until hell freezes over for me to say anything in an apology…”
Hastings is my new hero.
Let me re-introduce myself. My name is Heath Wiggins, a Relationship Consultant who empowers men to become the kind of man a woman trusts, respects, and actually wants to follow. And I do not apologize for that.
Where is this coming from?
When I write articles about how men can improve themselves and their relationship, I get dinged by people who say I’m male-bashing. Or I hear I’m blaming men for all relationship problems, or not being fair because I’m not holding women accountable too.
Fa-real? That’s how you feel tho?
So, you know everything about relationships and how to execute it perfectly? Your father taught you how to be a man, husband, and father and you don’t need anyone teaching you anything? Your girl is perfectly happy with you? You’re doing everything right in your relationship and there’s no room for improvement?
Or, are you like the rest of us — stumbling and bumbling our way through life. Making and adjusting plans on the fly. Hoping she doesn’t find out, some of us are making it up as we go.
It’s Simple Math
How are you going have between 67%-72% of African American families being led by single moms for the last 40+ years and not have some kind of impact on the valuing and perception of relationships, roles, and responsibilities. That’s two generations! Traditional relationship skills were made obsolete. Children adapted and created new norms and rules to survive and thrive.
Now, this hefty majority of black children are adults…dating, marrying, and having children. And they’re bringing old relationship values and perceptions into new relationships, expecting different results than their parents. Some are successful. Others are struggling. Some fail outright. But everybody needs help figuring out what will make their relationship work.
Read What He Won’t Apologize for on the Next Page
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