Unfortunately, there is so much sadness and evil in this world today. It's so easy to let some of what's happening around us affect our relationships. A culture of selfishness and hate could quickly have an impact on even the best of marriages. Seeing friends divorce and hearing stories of infidelity and pain, could have you looking at your own marriage sideways if you aren't … [Read more...]
How Well Would You Score on a Marriage Performance Review?
One of the things I look forward to every year on my job is seeing what my manager thought of my overall job performance. It's beneficial to me because I am reminded of my strengths, but I'm also enlightened on my areas needing improvement. I’m usually aware of the things I could do to make me a much better employee. Sometimes discussing those things is necessary for my … [Read more...]
Singles: Are You Who Your Future Spouse is Praying for?
“From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded [required]; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.” Luke 12:48b NIV We all pray and wait patiently (and anxiously at times) for the one that God has for us to marry. We pray that they will treat us right, complement us, and have genuine love for us and others. It’s just as … [Read more...]
Would You Marry You?
Some married folks are quick to complain about the flaws of their spouse. For some odd reason many of us think we're perfect. It's difficult to recognize our own errors, but easy to point out those of others. Go figure. When I was a young single I had this image of the perfect spouse. A mate who catered to my every need with limited flaws seemed ideal. Unrealistic, I know. … [Read more...]
Why Being Married Doesn’t Always Feel So Comfortable
When I first married my husband, I remember there being a slight struggle for me within. At times I felt as though I was going to lose myself. I now had someone who I needed to check in with, someone whose feelings I had to take into consideration with every decision I made. This was uncharted territory for me as an adult. A few personal sacrifices were going to have to be … [Read more...]
How to Be a Better Spouse in Just 20 Seconds
Yes, 20 seconds. Allow me to explain. I know there is always some sort of pressure any time we’re asked to do something in just seconds. But there are several things a person can accomplish in 30, 25 and yes, even 20 seconds. For example, did you know you can brighten someone else’s day in just 20 seconds? Sharing a friendly smile or even a warm greeting will do the trick. You … [Read more...]