Even though most of us know how hard it is to change anyone, including ourselves, we often enter into relationships with expectations that are not in alignment with who our mate is. Despite the love and affection we may have for the person we married, we sometimes think that maybe—just maybe—the love we have for them will magically change some quality we don’t care for. But … [Read more...]
Have You Become the Person You Never Wanted to Be?
Months or even years into a relationship you might find that you have become the very person you never wanted to be. “That person” can vary depending on you and the situation, but the repercussions of being whoever it is you vowed to never become can significantly impact your relationship. An example of such, and a fairly obvious one, is “the mother.” How often have you … [Read more...]