Dear Dr. Buckingham, I came across your email through a blog and I am seeking advice. About three weeks ago, I found out that my fiancé of 10 months (dated for 12) cheated on me and got another woman pregnant. This has been the roughest 3 weeks of my life. He told me the news after she reached out and told him and they supposedly did a paternity test. I don’t even know what to … [Read more...]
My Fiancé is Dating Another Woman. Do You Think That I Should Marry Him?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I have this boyfriend that I have been dating for almost three years now and we are planning to settle down. Recently, I found out that he has been dating several females. He told me that he could date several women because I have not made up my mind to marry him. After I told him that I was ready to marry him I found out that another girl called him and … [Read more...]
With All This Drama, Should I Get Married and Then Sort Out My Problems?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, Hope you are well. I have doubts about the man in my life; it's difficult to trust him. He impregnated a lady while we were dating, then I became pregnant. We broke up because I couldn't bear it; but now that our son is 4 years old, he came back and asked for forgiveness. I forgave him and he wants me to just give myself to him. He wants me to come see … [Read more...]