"Adam & Eve weren't married, " he said. I was dumbfounded. I couldn't believe my boyfriend, a minister in training, was trying to convince me to sleep with him prior to marriage by using Bible characters. When I persisted in saying no, he told me my desire to abstain was a "good goal," but wasn't realistic. This man wasn't the only "church player" I dated prior to … [Read more...]
Date Him Or Dump Him? How to Decode Men’s Behavior In Dating
Everybody tells you to "think like a man," but it's hard to know what he's thinking when he sends you mixed messages, right? So what should you do if a man's not being straight up with you: Date him or dump him? Let's look at a few common scenarios: He tells you "I love you" when you're together, but when you're apart, it doesn't feel that way. You're "nice" to … [Read more...]
The 7-Step Love Detox Challenge that will Transform Your Dating Life
With Spring just around the corner it's a good time to detox your love life. Why? Because your thoughts are getting in the way of you attracting and keeping love. Your thoughts shape your feelings which in turn, control your behaviors and actions. As Proverbs 4:23 says, "Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts." (GNT) So let's identify 7 areas where some … [Read more...]
Are They REALLY Relationship Material? 3 Questions to Ask On a First Date
If you want to find your soulmate, you have to get good at mastering first dates! I know first dates can range from awkward to disastrous, especially when you have those "oh-no-somebody-say-something-please" moments. The purpose of a first date is really just to relax, have fun, and see if there's enough there to see each other again. The key is to stop worrying about what … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Tell if He’s Marriage Material
The man you marry will be of your choosing. I know you will choose wisely. The five traits listed here only begin to touch the surface of this subject, yet these are big ticket items. The list is not all inclusive but something to think about as love comes knocking on your door. Your boundaries and standards will determine if he is marriage material. When Mr. Right comes … [Read more...]
“Where Are All The Available Men?” How to Attract a Man Who is Ready for a Relationship
"Where are all the available men?" "There are no good men in [insert your city here]!" I can't tell you how many times I've heard this from frustrated, single women looking for a relationship-ready man. These successful sistas aren't complaining about the men/women ratios in their particular city; they're fed up with meeting the wrong kind of man! Let me help a sista … [Read more...]