Have you ever met an attractive person with great qualities and wondered why they’re single? I think most of us can say yes. Now, tell the truth: have you ever thought that something must be wrong with them because they’re single or unmarried? I’ve been guilty of this too, but this mindset is not towards every single person I meet. But every now and then I wonder: they’re … [Read more...]
“Caught in the Act!”: Focusing On This One Thing Is Killing Your Marriage
"What you focus on is what will grow!" This quote got me thinking about how we in relationships tend to focus so much on our mate’s shortcomings and not enough on his or her positive attributes. As a coach I often get clients who call me and can give me a list of everything their mates are doing wrong. "He doesn't clean up behind himself!" "She nags too much!" "He … [Read more...]