I remember a few months back when a friend shared with me that they were separating from their spouse. It always breaks my heart to hear stories of separation and divorce. But I love the fact that people trust me with their truth, triumphs and their struggles. This person asked what they should be doing during the separation. Because I know separation doesn’t automatically lead … [Read more...]
How to Be a Better Spouse in Just 20 Seconds
Yes, 20 seconds. Allow me to explain. I know there is always some sort of pressure any time we’re asked to do something in just seconds. But there are several things a person can accomplish in 30, 25 and yes, even 20 seconds. For example, did you know you can brighten someone else’s day in just 20 seconds? Sharing a friendly smile or even a warm greeting will do the trick. You … [Read more...]
Who Did You Marry: What to do When Your Spouse Changes
Change is inevitable. It is the one constant we can always count on in life. Our physical appearance changes, our mood, outlook and sometimes how we feel about our relationship. All this change makes it even more challenging to maintain a strong partnership. I see so many couples who arrive at an unhappy place in the relationship because their partner has changed. It's naive … [Read more...]