When you have a disagreement in your marriage, you should have one goal and one goal only, to win! Yes, after the dust settles you should be able to feel like "this was a clear victory." I'm sure somebody has told you otherwise. Clearly, chalking up a "W" at the end of a disagreement with your spouse is not what your intent is supposed to be. After listening to our marriage … [Read more...]
3 Things that Will Help You and Your Spouse Fight Fair
One of the biggest problems Tanya and I had when we first got married was learning how to fight fair. Our first two years of marriage was very reminiscent of Jody and Yvette in "Baby Boy" and I told Tee that we weren't bringing any kids into this world until we learned how to argue the "right way." Over the years, we've found numerous tips that have helped us to stay on point … [Read more...]
Disagreements are Inevitable; 7 Tips on How to Fight Fair in Marriage
When you decide to marry someone, it doesn’t mean things are perfect. We all know that (or at least I hope you do). Anyone who's married can probably tell you that they’ve gotten into a fight or two (or three) with their spouse. I don’t see how you can spend the rest of your life with someone without the occasional disagreement/fight. Anger is a normal emotion, and trying … [Read more...]