I am a dreamer. I sometimes think up really big ideas but occasionally I lose steam when the process seems to be moving too slowly or I get discouraged. This is why my husband is such a really great match for me. He’s always supportive, realistic and able to see the big picture when I can't. He knows who he married so he understands what I need as a dreamer. Dreamers get … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Support Your Spouse When They Need You the Most
Boy oh boy can life have its way with us. As long as we live, we will continue to experience the ups and downs that are thrown our way. Some of it can really knock the wind out of us if we don't have a strong enough support system. And your marriage should actually be that system. When life hits your spouse hard, it's not your job to hit them even harder. Couples should know … [Read more...]
The Hard Truth about Being a HelpMate
No beating around the bush or sugar coating this. Here is the hard truth about being a helpmate: You don’t get to choose what you help with or if you help at all. You were created to help. Period. I heard those words just as clear as day, not from a friend or counselor, but from God. My husband and I were dealing with an issue, and honestly I felt like saying “Look, … [Read more...]