The most valuable lessons seem to be the ones that cost the most to learn. Pain is nonrefundable. There are few lessons that can compare to those gained through heartbreak. Losing a woman is at the top of that list, especially when a man loses her before he actually had her. To lose the opportunity not because he's a liar, cheater, abuser or any other heinous act is even … [Read more...]
#BreakEveryChain: Stop Trying to Control Your Mate
Maybe there was something or someone from your past who hurt you or deceived you. Maybe it was your ex who would say one thing and do another. Maybe you and your current mate went through a season together when he or she “messed up” and lost your trust. Maybe you are so worried about the possibility your mate could make you look bad that you try to control everything he or she … [Read more...]
3 Big Reasons Why You Have and Will Always Have Relationship Drama
It’s one of the most challenging things to deal with in relationship coaching. When you have clients who continue to have the exact same issues over and over again in their relationships. Often, I find these issues continuously reoccur because of deeper issues in the couple’s or individual’s personal development. And through the years, a few things have stood out to … [Read more...]