Dear Dr. Buckingham, My husband and I discussed the possibility of starting marriage therapy after reading several of your articles. We are excited about the possibility, but do not know what to expect. We have been married for 15 years now, but I do not feel that I know my husband well. In fact, I am not sure if I know myself well. We argue over little things and are … [Read more...]
3 Signs You are Fed-up with Your Spouse and They are Fed-Up with You Too
There are times in our marriages where we have problems, but we struggle with finding a resolution. I have found in some of those situations, it’s because there are some deeper issues individually. When we see these recurring issues, both partners have to take accountability and look for signs that one of the partners needs further help. This is not about pointing fingers, … [Read more...]
When You Can’t Do it Alone: 5 Signs that It’s Time to Get Outside Help for Your Troubled Marriage
Love is tricky and while sometimes it may feel as though we have a good handle on it, unfortunately, oftentimes, we don't. One of the hardest things for most couples to do is recognize that the healing needed in their marriage is something they can't do alone. This is obvious and also the reason there are so many relationship resources and professionals. Relationship … [Read more...]