by Phil Stevens, I'm a man. This is embarrassing and I'm ashamed of myself for it, but I need to confess it. The other day while at the mall, a young woman in skin tight, short shorts turned my head. The rule is I can look for a second or two but I cannot stare. Staring is essentially lusting or fantasizing. This time - I did. I stared for quite some time and just watched … [Read more...]